I just had a new OEM exhaust installed and had a major boom at idle. Helpfully, I have an app on my phone (that I use for sound gigs etc.) that shows frequency response of sound, so I measured the sound and bought the exhaust weight for the appropriate frequency (39hz).
This doesn't sound like your problem, but maybe it'll be helpful anyway.
This doesn't sound like your problem, but maybe it'll be helpful anyway.