As a diesel conversion owner, I have to put my two cents in this. Like the others have said, a diesel conversion is not something to be taken lightly. In all honesty, it doesn't sound like you are prepared. Sorry for my bluntness, but it needed to be said.
It's not just about mechanical abilities, tools, help from friends, shop etc....you also have to ask yourself- do you have time for this. You have to factor in family obligations, childcare, work obligations, etc. According to my wife, "all I ever do is work on that damn truck". And there's nothing wrong with the diesel conversion aspect of it. It's just a 22 year old truck that requires attention.
My suggestion to you is to find one that has already been converted and buy it. Even if you need to have it shipped from across the country (That's what I did). Trust me, just owning a diesel conversion, you WILL learn.
As much as I hate to do it, I'm actually considering selling mine because of the aforementioned reasons.