I don't see why Metra 70-8113 would not work. I know that all the connection I used it for, it worked without a hitch, but I didn't use the RCAs, as I bypassed the amp.
Thanks @Njck22 . I ordered Axxess TYTO-01 Wiring Interface Connect a new car stereo and retain the factory JBL and JBL Synthesis® audio systems in select 2001-13 Toyota and Lexus vehicles at Crutchfield and was planning to chop it up and probably not use the Axxess thingy. I think I'll return it and order the one you suggested...