Being one of the oldest Toyota outfitters, I would expect better of you. Your assesment of the 3.4 SC relaiblility and cost is BS
I have done 3 3.4 swaps and my buddy will be starting his 4.3 swap soon. Its hard to say which one is better.
The 3.4 is expensive, but powerful and reliable! Also you can SC it and it is much more reliable than "Downey" will have you believe. Plus its toyota.
The 4.3 is cheap, you can get parts everywhere for cheap. But they are (in my experiance) a piece of junk compared to the 3.4. and while they do have plenty of power, (in my experiance) they dont age well and experiance a noticable power loss over time. But hey we wrench on our **** all the time and the 4.3 can be easily brought back to life over and over again.
BTW, I have a 3.4 in my 92 4runner auto which weighs 5000-5500lbs and I just drove around on a set of 42's @ 18psi, and the motor didnt even care!