And after so much info made this testinone picture thing, the motor tested fine and with 24Volt and two batteries on chargers the winch is working both ways, solenoids are fine
So time to fix it to the bumper and fix the incab switch and something outside,
24 volt winch control 3 wire | eBay
Maybe the cheap (wireless) remote is dangerous because I dont want to loose my fingers, this is a mighty piece of equipment.
The albright contractor extra duty 24Volt replaces the 4 crappy solenoid so a must have
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DC88-556PL24V
Albright Contactor - Extra Duty 24V
Asked the

if she fancy's a trip to England: South Molton, Devon to pick one up

450 km from Folkestone ferryport, or Caen to Portsmouth
So I tested it again for a minute free spooling in and then 1 minute out, no problem, really fast.
Lubed the two small rollers, they shine like a tit!