the harness comes with instructions and
the whole front bar here needs to come off but it's a bit of a pain and isn't explained.
so remove five screws at the front grill (2 top, 2 sides half way fine and one on the middle all the way at the bottom) and take that off. then like six large bolts at that cross member. then three bolts at that mechanism that locks the hood. there's like two big bolts at the front of the radiator. they go through a big kind of dumbbell shaped rubber grommet. i was missing the bolt on the passenger side so the grommet was just hanging and the radiator could move a bit on this side. i think i have a bolt here to fix that.
anyway once you get all that removed you need to pry two plastic pieces that held the grill - forward so you can slip that cross member past them and then up and out.
before you slip it out you need to pry those little clips inward that hold the lighting harness so they slip through the cross member. you can't remove the cross member with these in place and it's confusing as to why it's not coming out. it's these clips.
once the cross members is removed there is still something attached (i forget) so just let it hang.
at that point you can install the harness into the lens on the left side to see how it gets oriented. don't do the ground or hot wires now because you don't have it all organized yet.
then zip tie the cable to the original lighting harness.
then get the cross member back in.
now remove the overflow coolant jug. install the harness to n this side. secure the ground on this side. then zip tie the old connections to the new harness to get them out of the way.
on the drivers side you reuse the original connections by plugging them into the harness but on the passenger side they don't get reused so you have vestigial connectors on this side.
anyway when i take out the bulbs i am sure to set them somewhere on the left and right where they came out to make sure i don't mix anything up. the connectors are keyed to the bulbs with one and two slots so you can't really mix up the connectors.