Okay, so I have had some thoughts on this:
I have 2.5 acres on the Colorado River and can push out the roof to use this as a beater truck on my property. I am currently using a 1982 Toyota Truck for this and could use the Landcruiser to relieve it of it's duties. I could strip the interior to haul stuff, run over saplings and pull a plow around for clearing brush.
I can then find another suitable donor to transfer the locking axles, suspension, tires, leather interior and other good parts over to the new one. I can afford to take my time to do this and have family in rust free states that can keep an eye out for me. Right now I have more money than time so this might work out best for me. I can have another rig by next Summer and get all the goodies swapped over. I guess I need to start looking for information on how to swap out the lockers if the other cruiser is not wired for them. Also, there does not appear to be any frame damage. The Cruiser still runs and drives fine and has minimal damage on the side panels.
On a side note, the kids and I had a theme on this trip: "Keep your seat belts on and hands inside. I want you to see your mom again, but not today and not by rolling down a mountain."
As for the wife situation: She has expressed some regret and a desire to get back together 10 years from now when the kids are off to college. I will likely still have my two children who have autism living with me at that time, so she feels she can help me with them if we get back together. I wrote her a nice email stating that I would rather move on with someone else who is willing to stick through the thick and thin than someone who cannot endure the trials life may throw my way. Honestly, at this point I have resolved that this was her choice and there was nothing I could have done to change the outcome. I am more upset about the loss of my Land Cruiser than her.
So, for those that may be keeping score: Wife=Total Loss, Land Cruiser=Salvagable Loss.
Thanks for your continued thoughts and input.