Mike at Exit Offroad and I exchanged some messagess on the Dobinson options. Below is a copy and paste from his email that seems relevant to your desired setup. This is actually what I ended up ordering but have yet to install (arrived today).
So here's the list of parts with the 2.5" setup that I'd recommend for you.
C97-146VT front coils
C97-147VT rear coils
You can do the 0-3" shocks if you don't want to change your brake lines, or the 4-5" for maximum travel, but you will need the brake lines then.
SD59-824 front steering damper
Rear LSPV bracket
Rubber caster bushings
Front sway bar drop brackets
Rear sway bar drop brackets - you'll need to check your car for which ones you need
You can add airbags to help with towing if you feel like the tongue weight of the trailer will be a lot and you plan to tow often.
And that's the basics. You don't need rear upper or lower trailing arms or panhard rods at the height this setup will get you. You could replace the OE ones with them if yours are in bad condition or if the bushings are shot.
And here's where you can put all those items together:
Dobinsons 0" - 3" Lift Kit for Toyota Land Cruiser 80 Series | Exit Offroad - https://exitoffroad.com/product/dobinsons-80-series-build-your-kit/