It looks like when you pinned the ARB side of the harness that comes unpinned you pinned it incorrectly. We found an install guide someone else created where they mention that you have to clip the ARB wires in yourself and the orientation they should be. Here is a screen shot for your reference.I've decided that trying to use the Switch-Pros connector is a losing battle; I just spliced into the ARB harness and will return the Switch-Pros.