I’m curious... what do your parents drive?
A few thoughts since most of us are looking for a way to pass the time these days.
My first truck was a 94 Land Rover Discovery in 2003. Man I loved that truck but it was a money pit and PITA—-and it had the 3.9L Rover V8 which was considered to be one of the most reliable variants

. I did what I could myself and was mechanically inclined but had no experience working on cars and knew no one that did. It actually never left me stranded but was a constant battle and definitely a bit unsafe at times. This was all on my parent’s dime (except the mods) and I still feel guilty about it. Hindsight is 20/20 and I underestimated their reputation for unreliability. A $5k rover was far more than $5k. I should have just gotten a Civic or Corolla.
In 2007 or so, my parents made me
swap it for a 2005 v6 Grand Cherokee. I hated the idea of it but knew they were right. It’s still in the family to this day and never had issues...I’m still surprised by that.
That experience is why I’m a a diehard Land Cruiser guy now haha. I liked them at the time but they were more expensive upfront— it’s for a reason and well worth it.
The moral of the story is I get what your parents *think* they are protecting you from. You paying an arm and a leg to maintain it as a recent grad because it’s ‘old’.
Granted they’re wrong and it would probably outlast/be around longer than whatever they’re driving now. Plus they’re being overly authoritarian and jerks about it considering you’re footing the bill and 21.
There is a catch though. Yes, Cruisers have a reputation for being indestructible and extremely reliable but people often conflate that with not having to maintain it.
Cruisers need maintenance and things do need to be replaced to go their next 250k miles. At that mileage things like bushings, ball joints, steering rack bushings and the rack itself, and half shafts are at the end of their lives or start going. Buying a 20-ish year old or older Cruiser is only economical if you do a good chunk of the work yourself.
If you can’t and are short on cash you skip maintenance and repairs that are needed but may not seem necessary. Since they’re tanks they’ll go down the road with a ton of things wrong or out of spec. Continue doing that and they won’t be reliable. And IMHO, if you take them to average mechanics and/or are using cheap parts and they’ll continue to deteriorate.
Drive a cheap beater for a few years then get the cruiser of your dreams and prove them wrong. You’ll also get a much better truck buying one here and/or flying and driving a truck from a southern state with no salt. Then fluid film or krown will be your best friend if you have to drive it in salt...but you should keep the beater for that.
This rant may or may not be helpful but what I’m trying to say is going into a potential recession they could be doing you a huge favor despite them being dbags about it.
*Edited for typos and clarity*