Since I am a complete idiot when it comes to electrical (think which end of the hammer do I use now?!) for the second (bottom) lead how do I make it so it is switched for IGN/ACC?
So you want to make the bottom circuit (that runs the iPod etc.) switched through the Ignition switch instead of having a dash switch for it?
The way it is shown in the image is basically he's added two additional relays in front of the OEM (I think when it says 'Relay for Headlights' it is referring to the OEM headlights, right? or not...?) headlight relay....the OEM Headlight circuit runs off a fusible link that isn't switched through the Ignition switch...so we'd have to come up with a way to add this Relay to a switched circuit...
I'll be happy to help you try and figure it out as best I can...also might consider flying it by SLCF62 once we've got a better idea of how it might work...
Also, you referred to a link where you got that image...can you post up link to that link? Thx.