UPDATE - I received my Chassis Ears by UPS today.
LEAD ONE - transfer case - noisy just in general, with some very minor whining noise, and a moderate amount of the vibration noise
LEAD TWO - front differential - very quiet in general, but this is where I heard the vibration noise most distinctly and loudly, although the difference was not huge.
LEAD THREE - passenger knuckle - very quiet, but heard the vibe a moderate amount
LEAD FOUR - driver knuckle - very quiet, but heard the vibe a mild amount (less than passenger side)
LEAD FIVE - t-case crossmember - very quiet, barely heard the vibration
With the Chassis Ears, I have discovered the vibration occurs as low as 18 mph, although you can't hear it with the human ear until around 40 mph.
Unfortunately I could hear the vibe all throughout the front drivetrain. However, I believe this test generally narrows it down to the front differential. I had to put the diff lead right on the pumpkin because there was no good place to attach it near the pinion flange. I would assume the passenger knuckle transmitted the vibe more loudly than the driver side because the passenger side is closer to the diff.
My next steps are to Drain and Refill the front diff, looking for metallic debris.
I would still like to try another front driveshaft just to be sure it's not a defect with my driveshaft, so I'm begging again if anyone will let me borrow theirs briefly....