Totally get it. My '20 Duramax is the last new car I'll ever own. It's SUCH a pain to work on and it creates issues which only the dealer can clear. I've treated it with kid gloves since new and maintained it perfectly..... and I hate to lose a car like that. But I'm looking for 96-97 F250 power stroke 5 speed in great condition. When i find it I'm buying it and selling my Duramax.
I'm 56 now and I thought this would be my 'retirement car' (to tow my Cruiser or RV places once I retire) since I bought it new. But I've come to realise new cars are not meant for long-term ownership, they are many to be kept for 5-10 years and scrapped.
I like my old 40s, pre-2000s cars and classics. I'll leave the new, self-driving cars to the cool kids.