Is it really a good idea to connect a (possibly) discharged deep cycle battery to a fully charged SLI battery? The two batteries normally different charge profiles/voltages and shunting them together is going to blast current from the alternator/SLI battery into the DC battery. The SLI battery should be able to handle this, but the DC battery might not like such a large "bulk" charge. Yes it does work, but I do not think it is proper.
I've been arguing with myself about this for a while, but I think a more proper way to do this would be to either have another alternator/voltage regulator or a DC powered battery charger for the house battery. Tying it into the ignition and alternator "charge lamp circuit" would ensure that the house batteries are only being charged from a healthy alternator.
Or, run two massive DC batteries permanently connected together, and just don't go camping for more than a week at a time.
You can always be like this guy, that's only 1000 pounds of lead there. I bet he does not worry about the ARB fridge.