Here's the catch can in situ
I stuffed it with a full packet of coarse stainless steel wool
so it looks like this through the outlet ports
this is supposed to give the vapour plenty of contact surface area so it leaves the oil behind and the venturi just draws off vapour
Good question Dougal, I'm still in trial and error mode at this stage, my EGT (pre turbo) cruising today at 100km/hr was only 300'c so I have plenty of room to add more fuel to get the temp up

It may well be too cool where I've paced it.
I'm changing oil tomorrow to a 20w x 60w mineral, away from the semi synth that's in there ATM. I put that in there 1 week pre project and didn't really drive it but I had very little blowby prior so maybe going back to the older style, thicker oil will help with the blowby.
If it doesn't, I'll have to (blank off the first) put in a second venturi port in between the O2 port and the muffler which is a bit of a tricky one. Because of the location, but also because I'm a bit worried about it affecting my AFR reading from the probe.
It didn't hardly blow at all pre project, so my last reason (that I can think of) for why it is blowing so much is that the oil feed pressure to the turbo is too high and it's pushing into the compressor.
Does anyone know if that's possible?