Lets see a picture of how it sits with the lift in place. By the way, how has nobody commented on the wife, very cool that she is wrenching on it herself! And she is super cute to boot, looks like you got a good one. Hope that is respectful enough and not taken the wrong way.
PS i think there is no real right or wrong way to do the front springs. But i see you removed "the rod" from the pass side of the axle. Glad it worked for you. I have never tried that. I have always had to remove the four bolts holding up the sway bars. They are really easy to get in and out and usually give me enough slack. If you have to do it again see if that helps.