I don't think the extra RAM / ROM should make much of a difference when it comes to handling movies and music. For storage of the movie and music files, my plan is to use the same 512GB USB thumb drive I've been using with the EC Offroad interface module I currently have as even 128GB wouldn't be enough for all of my music. Same thing for any offline map storage - my preference is to store those on removable storage. One big advantage to using removable storage is that if you put the USB connections some place where they're accessible you can disconnect the thumb drive and bring it to your PC to move files around. IMHO, the extra RAM / ROM is more about being able to have more apps running at the same time without the system starting to get sluggish and having more space to install apps. For a car head unit application though, 64GB is probably plenty of space for apps. The other advantage of the 8/128 unit is that it looks like it will be running Android 11 - it looks like the one you have (and I hope to have soon...) is running Android 9. But the current unit should be fine for now and can always be replaced with something newer in a few years if there's a desire or need to do so. At that point, the new units might even have 4K screen resolution.
I thought I had checked the box on Alibaba blocking other vendors from contacting me, but must have screwed that up. A few other vendors were actually fairly helpful. A few seemed VERY shady. Ultimately, I felt far more comfortable going with the vendor
@RidgieWagon used since we have 1 success story to go with. That definitely made me a lot more comfortable initiating the wire transfer.
Yeah, wiring money always makes me nervous largely because I have only needed to use wire transfers a small number of times over the years as most places obviously take credit cards (or cash if we go back to the dark ages

). I initiated the wire transfer after hours last night, so it won't actually get processed until some time today.
That's actually a bit encouraging on the shipping time - if I get lucky and mine doesn't sit in a "received" status for an extended period, I could have it relatively soon.
I just ordered the NuShield DayView screen protector - thanks for doing the legwork on that as well.
Now you just need to figure out how to swap in higher resolution cameras without having to run new wiring so I can copy what you do there as well.