just wanted to post a quick follow up.
The mic I ordered from the dealership, PT546-74120-MC, works great, it was a direct plug-in.
The mic portion is designed for surface mount, it has a sticky backing, and the kit comes with some zip ties and sticking bits... I think it is designed to be surface mounted to the dome light, installed above the headliner.
I was much more lazy than this, I just stuck it to the steering wheel cowling above the key cylinder and routed the cable behind the dash that way.
The bluetooth capability works great with my android phone too, with BT-audio mode it will automatically start playing the song it left off with, all I have to do is turn the key and it pairs and starts playing on its own. Also works pretty well for pandora streaming, though it would be nice if the folder buttons (up/down) would switch pandora stations. Also, the pause button seems to not always pause in pandora and it doesn't automatically start again the way the music player does.
I may have paid too much for it but i feel that it is totally worth it.