Honestly I'd look at a set of new springs at least in the rear...yours are somewhat compressed now due to fatigue/age and they won't have the same travel with the spacers and will make the ride a bit harsher and maybe even unstable (based on old/worn out shocks if you haven't replaced lately). I know that you have some new extra weight back there, but it should't drag it down that much in my opinion. Remember that the rig should ride correctly even with a spare back there as it is behind the axle already from the factory...the weight of the swing arm and the extra leverage of moving the tire further back will have some effect, but again, in my opinion, not that much. A decent HD stock height spring should help a lot, and not really that expensive or difficult to install (same as stuffing the bushings in there!).
I use a 30mm in my rear end, but mainly just to help with height adjustments/leveling on new springs (3" or so lift on Dobinsons progressive rate springs).