Follow the instructions above. If you are careful to limit the "extra, ie non -OEM loads", on the system, your Amp Meter will be fine.
If on the other hand you are going to run a winch or some other really heavy draw load, and that is the reason you are upgrading the alternator, then you need to bypass the Amp Meter to prevent burnout. Just take one terminal loose from the back of the Amp Meter and connect it to the other on the same stud. No need to run another charge wire. Your truck is already using an 8ga wire. That will handle any normal loads you will experience. Just don't try to charge a completely dead battery with your alternator or you will overheat the main charge wire. I HIGHLY recommend that you install a fusible link on your truck. I sell the kit to easily retro fit to your old truck. This will prevent damaging your harness should you, or someone you loan the truck to, do something to over load the system.