So I ended up finding a 1996 FSM and followed some steps. Here is what I found:
Car was forever cranking in the driveway Yesterday. Couldn't get it to start for the last 24 hours.
I first replaced the fuel pump resistor because it was reading 1.1 ohms(should be 0.7 per FSM). Grabbed one from a junkyard that tested good, no dice there.
Swapped fusible links, and then follow the FSM to test the FPRelay and CORelay which I now have two of. They all(2 of each) work, per the continuity and jumper tests.
Swapped out both old and new relays just in case, nothing there either. It did turn over once, and died after about 20 seconds, felt like it wasn't getting gas.
I have also confirmed the pump works, per FSM. Tested it with battery voltage and it spun. Continuity was also there.
Also took a deep look at the fusebox. Per my last post, the pump fuse slot was fried. I pulled the wires and wired in one of the fuse holder wire things and put a new 15A in there. I also looked deep at the EFI wiring, looks good. Also swapped in a new EFI fuse, but I have had the CEL this entire time, so I don't think its my issue.
I have also gotten significantly better with an ohm meter, and realized that having tiny alligator clips will make my life much much easier.
@jonheld hoping you could point me in a new direction. I attempted to test the ECM ports per the FSM, but like I said it was 1996 and it looks slightly different. I'm not sure I jumped the right ports, and couldn't get any voltages. I also took a deep look at the harness. I think that part of the diagnostic may help me figure out what part of my harness may be of issue.
There was another post I can't recall, where someone mentioned a wire that controls some of the FP or B+ logic that comes off the fuse box. There is one wire, right kind of behind the alternator, that comes of the main fuse box harness and goes right next to the fuel rail. That connector is pretty ****ed up. There is also some weird wiring s*** from the PO in the kick panel where the COR lives. Not sure if my issue might be there. I followed the rest of the harness from ECM to firewall to EGR area and the fuse box and FPR/resistor live. Wiring looks pretty solid.
THANKS
EDIT:
@jonheld you mentioned the AFM at the beginning of the thread. I'm going to run the FSM test, see if it is the correct resistance.