It always amazes me how many guys dive into the audio system, or anything electrical for that matter, without an EWD to help out.
The LX EWD shows two connectors for the radio. The larger one (color unknown) goes to the amp and antenna ECU, and the smaller dark gray one goes to the CD changer. All of the wire bundles look to be shielded except the purple antenna ECU wire.
I don't see a 4 wire connector.
Typically whine that changes with RPM is from the alternator. Grounding issues usually cause it. Google Alternator radio whine.
Im not sure grounding the negative lead of the speakers is a good idea if that's what you did.