ok it seems that this feature can simply be activated at the dealership. Unfortunately the dealers here seem to be oblivious to this fact. They dont even know what i am talking about. has anybody watched how its done. i will be able to ask them to connect the computer but might be better if i already know how to go to the menu that allow me to modify these features...
Do you have a laptop? The Techstream cable and software is only $25-30, depending on where you buy it. They will probably charge you more than that just to make this change.