Ok, I'm just going to post my experience here. Could be handy for some people in the future.
The difference between the sub tank switches is not only depending on the year of your landcruiser. The large button that only fits the old dash, was only for diesels. They have a totally different sub tank system.
That switch is NOT momentary! That is because the (only the early?) diesel sub tank system works this way: if you push the button you use diesel from your sub tank. Else you use diesel from your main. So there is no pumping from the sub to the main tank.
That is why this button is not momentary.
But the good news is you can use this switch in your own sub tank system where you use a small 12v pump the pump the diesel form the sub to the main tank.
Push the button and it starts pumping. The button stays a little inwards. Push it again and power is interrupted.
BUT you cannot use the ECU from George because this only works with a momentary switch...
So if anyone needs a ECU, I have one

(I live in Europe)
You can still order the socket that fits the switch. If you have a friendly toyota guy
The switch
wiring diagram of the switch