Definitely a debatable topic and various ways you can look at each application; both have their merits. Ok you mentioned 50k trouble free miles with airbags, how many trail miles towing heavy camp trailer with armored and fully packed truck like OP has pictured?
If I were OP and based his set up and intended use; I wouldnt trust airbags as a reliable or maintenance/trouble free solution for that job.
Curious, have you use airbags in your truck? Not Range Rover air suspension (which is crap) but the Firestone or Airlift brand helper bags?
About half my miles each year are towing a 6000# trailer. Those are highway miles.
I don't do a ton of offroad driving. Mostly pothole-ridden city streets. Some of the other folks on the forum like indycole have them and do a lot more wheeling than I do and could provide better feedback. That said having run them for 50k miles I do
not believe offroad driving is going to significantly contribute to airbag wear or failures so long as you keep a nominal ~3-5 psi in them. In fact I believe towing is
much worse as you're highly pressurizing them and as the wear on the bags is largely the friction of the springs against the bags - and when they are pressurized to 30psi they do stretch a bit. This is my opinion based on my experience so you can disregard it if you'd like - my positive anecdotal experience is as useful as the negative experience some other person may have posted about on another forum... unless there's a large random sample set of airbag users it's all statistically invalid anyway.
If I was offroad and towing a ton I'd probably just get stiffer rear springs and/or progressive rear springs and dump the airbags. Airbags are good for supporting ride height when you have a huge disparity in vehicle weights where you can't get a spring that will cover everything - like my setup where I may run ~6800# (with me in the truck) around town, ~7300# with my wife and kids and dog, or ~8500# with everyone plus a trailer with a 900# tongue plus additional camping gear.
I can't speak to the Timbrens but my understanding is it's just a longer, soft bump stop and so unless you're riding on them they aren't going to help... and if you are riding on them you're probably doing it wrong.
To the OP:
Losing 3" in the rear is a lot. Is that all from the trailer hitch or is it also gear in the truck? What's the TW of the trailer? If it's at least 400-500# then the setup should leverage a weight distribution hitch if possible to shift some weight off the tongue and onto the front axle.