You are that Guy - LOL. I agree she was possibly driving maybe to fast, maybe its too icy and maybe the tires that have 95% tread she has are crap. Hell I thought it was crappy on my way to work as well in my duramax, but it never once kicked the ABS on stopping at a stoplight and I've got s*** tires. Its our first dusting of snow/ice and I am sure that didn't help.
Problem is when I hit the brakes, I want a vehicle to brake like normal, not pulsate and not quit pulsating after you let off the brake.
Its not only her, its done it to me before in the same vehicle and the ABS on my FZJ80 was the same exact way. The ABS in the 80's and 100's is a crap system and I'm not the only guy in the world to think this.
If she is doing 50MPH+ with the rig locked in 4WD in the snow ice, she is going to have bigger problems than the ABS