I'm 90% sure that box is an intermittent relay. If the switch you have is a four position switch it is 1-off, 2-intermittent, 3-low, 4-high. If it is an intermittent switch you are better off wiring everything stock. Toyota was on their own planet when it came to wiper circuit design.
Hate to say it, but hopefully all the components (switch, relay, wiper motor) came from the same donor rig, you'll need to spend quite a few hours and follow
that wiring diagram.
Here is one I did for Jason's 45LV, using a late model FJ40 switch with intermittent position, a FJ60 intermittent box, and FJ60 wiper motor. You could do the same with a late model FJ40 wiper motor, you can bypass the relay for high low only without intermittent, the wiring diagrams show that. FJ60's and late model FJ40/5's shared the same circuitry.
If you're completely lost, detail exactly what components you're using, what they're from, and post detailed pictures of the wiring end of each showing wire colors and we'll try to help, but without that it's a total crapshoot.
And, I'd scratch the Early FJ45 label on this thread, because it has absolutely nothing to do with what you're attempting here.