You don’t have a locker? What ratio are you running in your diffs you might be able to find one 3.70 for around 100$ 4.11 more like 200$ Or more. If it came out of a front end it probably wouldn’t need a rebuild yet. Much cheeper and easier.
You probably needed the spacer due to the large lift you have. I would try to get rid of the spacer even if it means retubing the drive shaft.
Another thing with large lift springs or spring over lifts is the pinion flange might not parallel the tcase flange anymore. That would also cause vibration, premature rear u joint and pinion bearing failure. (Didn’t you just have to redo your rear u joint?) If that is the problem it can be fixed with some 20$ castor correction wedges. I happen to have some 4 degree ones I’m not using.
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