In 4th gear you are probably locked and not generating much heat. I think you are also re-geared? Since upgrading to 4.56 gears my TCC unlocks a lot less. I only have 5 gears but it usually pulls hills in 5th gear or 4th gear locked (with 3.73s it was a constant 5th-4th-3rd-4th-5th). Sometimes it will unlock for <30 seconds in 5th on a hill that's not quite steep enough for 4th gear, but I just let it do that. If I'm using 3rd to get up a hill on the highway I'm either going <45 mph on a twisty road or I'm towing something. FWIW, our hills are quite steep around here, although not that long.
All of the GXs are under-geared when 33" or larger tires are added, which causes the TCC to unlock more frequently to bump the engine up a few hundred RPM and make up for the effective gear ratio being too high. The unlocking generates more heat and further exacerbates the transmission cooling shortcomings

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