Wow was that ever tricky to put the plastic piece back in. If someone stumbles on this thread and wants to do it themselves here is how I did it which made it much easier.
1) Use a pick, like a dentist pick bent at a 45 degree or even more 70 degree angle, put it in the little hole by the door and you can just pull down on it. Don't worry too much about breaking the piece there it won't break there, pull away and then slide a screw driver or pry tool of some sort in the side, then use your hands and the too to loosen it all around. The clips are on the horizontal piece NOT and near the bend not at the bottom where the hole is. (Read step 6, take a video of removal if you need to because reinserting is tricky).
2) When you start pulling it away it can't come out straight it has to kind of bend in an S, you will break a clip, I broke the same clip on both sides. I think now that I understand how it comes off I could remove it without breaking it but it's difficult. You have to bend the bottom part with the hole kind of out and away but keep it really close to the door panel, even scraping it.
3) Since I broke the clips I crazy glued them back on, or spend the $20-30 on new pieces. But crazy glue seemed to work for me they are solid.
4) Now get a T25 torx bit. There are 3 bolts, mine had blue locktite some where tight some were not tight at all. Notice the angle so you do not strip they they are not straight up and down, I thought a long extension would help but it made it worse. I used a 1/4 ratchet with a deep socket and my T25 bit. I found a screwdriver too long as well.
5) I took out one bolt at a time added a small lock washer to it, put some blue locktite back on and tightened the bolt nice and snug. The TSB has the torque spec but I just went by feel. After only 1 bolt it was evident this solved the problem, do all three.
6) Now getting that plastic piece in (either new one or after glueing the little clip back on is TRICKY!!!!). Here is the trick, bend down and look up, there are 4 slots (sorry I really wish I had thought about taking photos). You'll see the 4 slots where the clips go. You need to line up the 2 most outside ones (closest to the mirror). But you can't just line up 2 and clip it in, the piece has to snake in along the body of the door and then clip in. Look at it carefully try to remember how you got it out and reverse it. It will seem impossible for awhile, took me 30 mins to get the first one, took me 2 mins to get the second one. Don't force anything you will get the right angle at the top then you have to slide the bottom piece in on an angle.
Good luck it was worth the hour ish it took me, no more shaking mirrors!
