I'd go for option 2 unless you have a need for a winch.
The weight of the winch, mount, cable, plus the expense of wiring etc. would just be dead weight most of the time. Realistically you're looking at about $1k and 150lbs or so when all is said and done.
You could probably find a impact bar for free from someone who's installed a full bumper. I'd give you mine since it's just taking up space in the garge but shipping would probably be prohibitive. Changing it out is pretty easy to DIY, for someone who's done it before it's probably a half hour job. I can't imagine a broken spot weld being the issue since the bar is aluminum but maybe it's a loose nut or something like that.