Is this a dedicated camping trailer, or do you plan to use it for general utility hauling as well? If the latter you might consider making the floor an inch wider at 49" so that 4' X 8' sheets of whatever don't bind on the sidewalls. I realize that complicates how to make the bed's floor, but it will be worth it the first time that you can slide sheets in and out of the trailer instead of having to wrestle them in and out..
Can make the tongue tube from receiver tube and create a sliding length tongue. Our TrailBlazer trailer's tongue extends about 3.5':
I must say, though, that I've only ever used that feature for moving it around the yard by hand.
My grandad's RoT for unladen tongue length is for it to be 1/3 to 1/2 of the total length from coupler to the axle. For instance, that's ~167 lbs. worth of fuel, not counting the masses of the containers or mounts, shown on the front of the trailer. So for mt grandad's RoT the tongue length would be measured to the front of them, not the box. If you know all of the various masses of the bits going into the trailer and that the trailer is being made from can do a Shear-Moment Diagram to work out what the tongue length should be in a more Engineered manner.
Ball coupler, and/or?
Note that the sliding part in the pic above has a receiver tube section welded to it. This was so that different couplers could be used. The problem was that the receiver tube section was too short. I've since cut that off and now the coupler is attached to the receiver tube instead.
This is how I built a "wristed" lunette using a longer section of receiver tube:
For a sense of scale, those are 9/16" X 7" long Grade 8 bolts.
And this is the mod to the pintle to keep the assembly from being able to roll under and lock-up while backing the trailer around a corner:
This is what not to do with a pintle & lunette:
See how the lunette's ring isn't a tight fit in the pintle's opening? It should be. The ID of the lunette's ring should
not be a tight fit on the hook of the pintle, but the opening in the pintle shouldn't be much larger than the cross-sectional diameter of the lunette ring. Done like in this picture they'll be noisy. When the lunette fits correctly there isn't any room for them to bang around. I do not think it is possible to achieve this fit using one of the pintles that has a std. ball coupler ball in it. I believe those will always be noisy.