Yes, clean both surfaces. Lube O-ring with Nylog and apply a few drops to each mating surface. The parts can be assembled immediately. Wait an hour to let it cure. But you still need the new hose also. I believe IT is the source of misalignment....not your new condenser.
Since you are in Texas (as I am) you'll see some hot summertime temps and high pressure readings of about 300 psi under some conditions. So yes, not super high pressure....but plenty to cause slow leaks if connections are not properly sealed.
Have the tech make sure the alignment 'roll pin' is in place at that fitting. Every push on fitting/mating surface has a small roll pin that aligns the hose fitting and prevents it from rotating. IF not present....that is a problem too.
See roll pin example in pic below:
View attachment 3652466