Hmmmm well I guess you learn something new everyday... The truck is not from Canada or some other market right?
Automatic transmission?
If you have a vacuum pump, you can try unhooking the 2 hoses from the actuator on the front axle, and using the pump to unlock the ADD system.... As I said, I believe the newer trucks get their 4WD light signal from the front axle, not from the transfer case as in days of old... I would to a general looking over of all the vacuum lines, and electrical connections that you can manage to trace down... Obviously it worked to get into 4WD, so you only have a problem on the way out.... Hehe