Heh - I know how you feel. Over the years I probably dropped several hundred or more on high grade stuff like early air filter and sparkplug changes, premium fuel, hyper cooling system maintenance, injector cleaners, etc that should have kept the cylinder environment free of deposits. Kinda odd, I grant ya.
As for the oil changes, this 8 quart system in a low stressed engine is designed for the factory recommended 7500 mile interval and not only is the 6200 babying it, but using top notch synthetic further created a thick cushion of over protection. I also practice oil changes tailored to the conditions of use, meaning my summer towing intervals were shorter ( perhaps 5000) where periods of simple driving were longer. My oil analysis showed that I have near zero wear and that I could extend changes to over 9000 miles with full protection.
I know how you feel. I am surprised, too. The oil is only part of my disappointment though. Looking at those filthy piston tops is the real surprise to me. Desiring clean valves and pistons, I've used both Techron and a couple of other fuel delivered cleaners as PM. No sign whatsoever that it helped.
Whomever noted that the introduction of the crud into the cylinders via the PCV system is right on. That's what's all over the cylinder environment. Makes me want to buy one of those 'evaporator' thingies that routes this crud into a bottle for dumping instead of the cylinders. Based on what I am seeing, they are onto something. The mfrs can't do this because of EPA rules that force them to make our engines reburn it. Or should I say 'try to reburn it'.
JK - the head will be stripped, cleaned, milled, have new valve stem seals installed, have the valve clearances adjusted, and be pressure tested. With the new gasket design it should be good for another 300,000 miles. I'll save money on a hearse when I die by instructing my last ride on earth to be in my 80. They can use the factory tie downs around my pine box to comply with any federal restraint law.
DougM