I had a problem with my rig shakeing, no mud im rims nothing. so i looked closer and saw the inside of my front tires were getting bald. took it to get aligned at the dealer and they said its because the arb and winch was to much on the front end. it made the front end sag 2 inches. i dont have a lift yet but lookin at OME how should i go about ordering it to instal at home? heaveys up front and mediume in back? is that best or what?