I removed leaf's from my brand new suspension after trying for a year to break them in and get a soft ride that way with no success. In the end it was fairly easy to remove a leaf so I would have done that from the get go if I had known better. From reading online, the general consensus is to remove the longest leaf that is not tied into your shackle mounts. You can either remove the entire leaf from the truck one at a time, or do what I did, and disassemble each corner leaf while on the truck. This was the easiest approach for me since I didn't have to deal with the shackle bolts or messing with the axle location.
I may actually do this again, for one big reason, and that is that my leafs are already showing rust between each leaf. I recommend that you pick up some of this stuff and layer it between each leaf as you reassemble.
http://www.speedwaymotors.com/Leaf-Spring-Liner-with-Lip-1-3-4-Inch,2079.html
To be clear, I haven't bought the liner yet, so I'm not sure if the width dimensions are correct for our trucks, so YMMV and do some measurements before you buy.
The longest leaf that isn't tied into your bushings is the leaf directly below your shackle mounted leaf. This means you'll need to remove the ubolts, remove the leaf centering bolt, remove the leaf hold down clamps (if you have them) and then pull all the leafs off that corner until all your left with is the top most leaf, then delete the longest leaf, reassemble that corner (with the delrin liner between each leaf) if you decide on that route, and then do the next corner.
Unfortunately, you won't know how much each leaf effects the ride until you reassemble and drive it for a few days, so it's going to be a trial and error sort of thing. Other folks will say to never do this and just buy the correct softer leaf applications (deleting a leaf causes more stress on the each leaf that is left over then it was originally designed for and you may end up cracking a leaf that is left over from not having the correct amount of leaves), but the way I figured, this is a cheap (free) option to try before you shell out more money and I don't hardcore rock climb my rig so I felt it was worth the risk.