I'm going to be ordering a relay(s) to upgrade myheadlight in my 40 but really don't know what I'm doing with it. DI need a relay with 4 or five terminals, will 40/20 amp rating be good enough and how many relays do I need for high and low beam, one for low beam and one for high beam. What size wires are best to use?. Also I'm gong to install H4 headlights, do I need a diffrent connector for these lights? and lastly, can somebody post an idiots guide to wiring these (pics or diagram) such as this wire goes to this termional and so on. Thanks 