Update, I finally got around to fixing my filler neck issues by eliminating the filler neck completely. It's not the ideal solution for everybody, but for my purposes it'll work fine. I'm using my main tank like a transfer tank to pump fuel back into the aux tank. Currently my setup allows me to draw from either tank directly to the engine
Made a plug to seal off the aux filler neck port. 3 o-rings seal to the interior of the filler neck, and the OD matches the OD of the filler tube so I can use the existing filler hose (not shown) to make sure it doesn't back out. I tapped the plug with another plug in case I need to add another port in the future for any reason. Everything sits within the frame area so in case I have another blowout it's not going to take out my filler tube.
To transfer fuel I have an electric fuel pump connecting the supply line on the main tank to the vent line of the Aux tank. I was already carring a spare fuel pump in case the mechanical fails, so I figured i might as well hook it up and put it to use rather than having it sit in my spare parts bag all the time. Now if my mech pump goes out the electric pump is already wired up and ready to go.
You can see where I Tee'd into the vent line going back to the vapor chamber. In theory, when the aux tank is full, the overflow goes back to the main tank. I tested it last night and it seems to work. I still need to anchor all the lines to the frame but for now zip ties are holding it. I may relocate the pump and associated hoses to between the seats, I want to keep everything above the level of the tanks in case there's a leak. The other thing I may do is add a fuel cutoff solenoid in parallel with the pump wiring to prevent gravity feeding or siphoning of the main tank when the pump is off. Not sure if that's a problem right now, but I already have one and it would be easy to integrate.
Because the electric pump is designed for carb engines, it's low pressure (I think around 5 psi) and is rated for 30gph. So it would take about 45 minutes to fill the 22 gallon aux tank from completely empty. It would take at least 2 fill ups to fill it from completely empty because the stock tank that it's drawing from is only 16 gallons. It's not much of a problem since I usually only fill the tank on long off-road trips and have plenty of time to prepare, I've never needed to fill the tank quickly. I also have a timer switch that is going to be triggered off the rear heater power (my rear heater is removed) so when I start the heater it automatically starts a 30 minute pump interval.