So, to fit in with the rest of the club, my woman decided we are done. Well it was sort of a mutual decision, but you know. I guess I'm not to hugely depressed about it. I mean it sucks, and I'm kinda upset. But I saw it coming. I guess all in all, I gave it everything I had. I have no regrets, in that now I never have to wonder if it would have worked or not. We're still friends. But hey, cant be too down. I get my 80 tomorrow, and I just landed a new job that more than doubles my income. I know some may think I ignored the advice given, and made a stupid decision. That may well be. But I appreciate all the time and thought people put into their responses and reading my saga. It never ceases to amaze me how much regard you can have for people youve never even seen. Thanks guys.