What suspension do you recommend?
Honestly, to get closest to the pin on a custom tuned suspension, give filthy motorsports a call. I ran stock, then BP51s and had Icons on my tundra and just ordered their King suspension kit for the cruiser. It takes some time for it to come in but in all the years I've been building toyotas, I've never had such good customer service. They'll talk through all your mods, weights, intended uses, lift amounts, etc.... then they have the suspension custom built and valved through King. They take a long time to deliver (it'll be about 7 weeks for me) but I am beyond excited for it. I went with the 2.5 coilovers with remote resins. 3.0s were an overkill for my application.