A Pioneer DPH4000iB or 5000iB will work and comes with the cable to hook up the iPod. What I have and seems to do the trick. Plus the 5000iB can be mounted at around 70 degrees if you decide you want to install it in an aftermarket console
For anyone interested. Cruiserpants, I had the same one stock in my 99' 4 Runner Limited edition (RIP), I also believe it comes in the Tacomas, but they don't have the I-pod plug. In my 62 I have the pocket style above and it fits any aftermarket head unit. Thanks for the info on the Scion unit guys, I'm gonna dig one of them up real soon.
The PO of my rig left the stock radio in the dash and installed an Alpine unit with iPod hook up in the Tuffy box. I think the stock am/fm unit in plain view is a better theft deterrent than my big mean ol Boxer giving them the stare down.
I took out the double-DIN stock radio/tape deck. Separated the tape deck part from the rest. Pulled the circuit boards out and sanded the face plate. Put some masking tape over the back of the tape-insert hole. Filled all depressions with marine bondo (3M product). Sanded the face smooth and flat. Then sprayed with black bedliner. Lightly stuck a piece of textured paper towel on face after bedliner was half-cured and peeled it away, leaving a nice diamond texture.
Installed a single-DIN cd player on top with the empty tape-player filler on the bottom.
I know it sounds horribly white-trash; actually everyone at work gave me hell as they walked by. But I've gotten a lot of complements on it . It turned out pretty well, and only cost me three squirts of bedliner and about 2 oz of bondo. I'll post a pic if anyone's interested. Otherwise, I'll slink off into the cheap-skate corner .