"Balancing" in A/C biz
The term "balancing" is a term sometimes used in the refrigeration business that referrs to adjusting the level of charge. It's a pretty arcane term, but it's more accurate than "charging" since sometimes the system is overcharged. A refrigeration system is properly charged by adjusting the referigerant level so that the evap is producing the correct amount of superheat for the particular referigerant and expansion valve. Superheat is the measure of how much heat is being transferred. The technical details aren't important here.
Your friend had no great insight I'm afraid. The best advise I can give is the same as that given by others here. Put a REAL gauge manifold on the system so you can see both suction and discharge pressures. If the suction side is, indeed, standing at 130psig with the compressor turning -- and the high side isn't off the charts -- then either the compressor valves are leaking badly (which isn't too likely) or there's a pressure relief valve in the compressor that's open.
Buy, beg, borrow or steal a set of gauges before you do anything else.