Thanks a lot guys - my other diff is bone stock so this should be fine.
Another question - I found a nice shop run by an ex-Lexus mechanic who is willing to do the work. However, this part is hard to find so they said it would be a better idea if I ordered the part.
HOWEVER, they said that while they would warranty their work - this wouldn't apply to the part and if anything was wrong with it after installing I would have to pay for removing it and installing the replacement (another 1500).
While it seems sort of fair for them to say that - it does leave me a little worried about being stuck with an endless bill. After all, I have no way to verify if the used part is indeed good (it does come with a 30 day warranty).
Further, the dealers want an extortionate amount of money for this job (10k ish) so that is a no go.
What do you guys recommend? Should I find a shop and have THEM locate the part so they are able to warranty the whole thing ($$$)? Or should I go ahead with this used ebay part and pray that everything is problem free? What would you do?