Did you find your suspension yet? I am located near McMinnville, OR. I have my old OME 50mm (2 inch) setup. It has 2851/2860 springs, shocks, factory radius arms with OME offset bushings already pressed in. Also have some 30mm urethane spring spacers that I used up front to level it.
These folks are a longtime mud supporter and Toyota specialist...https://www.metaltech4x4.com/
Mark at metaltech can quickly and easily determine your needs. They probably have it ready to ship.
There are other very capable supporting vendors also.
Cycle your suspension.
Measure the distance between upper and lower shock mount at full compression (when your bump stop hits the axle housing). The compressed length of shock must be shorter than this figure (if not you’ll blow your shocks out upon bottoming suspension). Also typically shock...