That's interesting theory. Can you please tell me where is this relay? And if there is a way to test it somehow. Should I just replace it, by chance do you know how much that would be? Thanks for the help!
The relay I'm talking about is the is the main BIG one that's a part of the starter solenoid. More info here - Starter Solenoid Failure Mode
@linuxgod brings up a good point in that it can be the little one in the fuse box that drives the big one. Any relay can potentially fail.
As your remote start finally failed, it'd be an odd coincidence that there's 2x different little relays that drive the big one, and for both of them to have failed?