I'm ashamed to say I didn't fix it. I sold it to my brother and he drives it as is (close to 400k miles now) He just drops it in reverse for a couple of seconds then into drive and it drives normally after that. I do think it just would need to have the shifter adjusted
Welcome! I know nothing about the speakers but the window can be fixed. You need to re-index the motor and requires removing the door panel. I know there are a couple of threads in here about that
Same happened to me and as BnvS stated, you're well on your way to doing the timing belt. I was about 120k from last timing belt job so I ended doing that as well with fan bracket, pulleys, tensioner, water pump, radiator (was original), heater T's, etc.