UPDATE: Seems to be fixed.
I measured at the axle to determine where the bolt hole in the actuator rod needed to be relative to the mounting face of the actuator assembly (not the round section I'm measuring in the photos above - measured from the flat face where the orange sealant is). The numbers I came up with were:
- Locker Unlocked (actuator rod retracted): 1.2"
- Locker Locked (actuator rod extended): 1.6"
When I pulled the actuator assembly, when I measured the shift rod in the unlocked position, I was at 0.9", so it needed to be extended by 0.3".
All I did was remove the three 10mm bolts holding the gear cover on, and removed the cover. Thankfully, when I removed the cover, I found this:

A nice & clean, unrusted gear and spring assembly. Phew. Note the orientation of the gears & springs - the is the how everything was aligned before I moved on to the next step.
Inside was the gear assembly, which I was able to carefully pry up and remove with a small screwdriver. I used the edge of the actuator housing as a fulcrum, and pried under the gold colored plate seen in the above picture. It didn't take much force, and it popped out. There are no clips or retainers holding the main gear & spring assembly in - it is simply sandwiched between the actuator housing & the gear cover plate. This is what the reverse side of the main gear looks like:

You can see where the contacts have been wiping across it.
And with the gear & spring assembly removed, this is what the interior of the actuator housing looks like:
At this point, I simply pulled the actuator rod out until I reached the magic 1.2" number (measured from the main, flat face of the assembly, to the center of the bolt hole in the shaft). I then reinstalled the gear assembly into the housing, and checked for continuity between pins 4&5. If there is continuity between 4&5, that means that the actuator is in the unlocked position, and the motor will not continue to run. Raventai's post here:
http://forum.ih8mud.com/80-series-te...tml#post172256 was invaluable for this information. I had to remove & rotate the gear assembly one tooth at a time until I had the actuator rod in the correct position
and had continuity between 4&5. I think I only ended up clocking it two, maybe three teeth in order to achieve the correct alignments on everything.
After that, it was merely a matter of reinstalling the gear cover plate, and reinstalling the actuator assembly into the truck. I took it for a quick test drive last night in a gravel lot, and the locker engaged in about two seconds while driving a tight turn.
Hopefully these pictures will help someone else down the line.