I can tell that everyone has been on the edge of their seats waiting to see if I can get this wiring figured out!
I helped a guy out on Yotatech with his elocker and while he had it out on the bench we were able to confirm that the wiring assumptions that I made in post 40 above are correct. Everyone can relax now and quit pouring over those wiring diagrams that I referenced.
When I get this done (August) I will start a new thread and link the new thread from here....just for posterity.